Community guidelines

Bondly works because people are real, kind and honest. Here is what that means in practice.

Be a real person

One profile, your own, with your own photos. Link X if you want extra trust. Impersonating anyone, including public figures, gets you removed.

Be kind on a red day

Disagree with ideas, never with people. Hot takes are welcome; harassment, slurs and pile-ons are not.

Never ask for money

No investment pitches in DMs, no "private platforms", no wallet addresses, no token shilling as a way to connect. Bondly's filters flag the obvious cases and the community reports the rest.

Respect a no

A skip, an unmatch or a block is final. Do not chase someone across platforms or create a second account to reach them.

Hearts mode is for adults who opted in

Keep Hearts conversations respectful and consensual. Do not bring Hearts content into Bags mode or Community. Explicit content, pressure and unsolicited intimacy are reportable.

Play fair in the Arcade

No bots, no multi-accounting, no exploiting bugs. Games are server-validated; cheating attempts are logged.

Report, don't retaliate

Use Report on any profile, message or post. Moderators review every report. Serious cases lead to suspension or removal; false reports are also a violation.